Tips and Truths of Relationship

Hi,there...I am writing this for an intention to share my experience,so i come to the matter. Relationship is a blessing of almighty as birth,we start our relation by birth with mother,that is actually the strongest never breaking relationship but apart from that as we grow up we make new relationships,after sometimes we got to struggle in a relationship due to a single reason of not meeting the expectations of that relationship,in certain times it is hard to be live according to expectation of our loved ones due to our own boundries which we can not cross,if we cross then we might hurt others who depend on us.so i do not go in debth of pain,suffering,worries,quarrels in a relationship but from my own experience i will give some tips..They are (1)Giving our time-most important thing in any relationship is to give our time unconditionally,why because our loved ones not really wanted money,luxuries,health policies,but they really need is your time,so have time for your loved ones(2)Have realistic expectations,one must try to understand the limitation of others,why because we should't have a expectation that other can do it for ourselves,we must understand the limitations of others,we must be joyful for what others can offer to us but not to expect things which other can not think of offering (3)Always pray for wellbeing of others so that you will recieve blessing of universe/god (4) work,work, and work.our job is the only gift of god from that we can offer something to other,without a job no relationship will withstand,our job is first and foremost filler of strong relationship without that we can not have any relationship.because of having relationship we work,our meaning and purpose of life comes from the relationship we had,so one must work and one must know that nothing will given by our begging hand to get something we must do something and finally i want to say one truth of relationship that is"Every relationship in beginning was beautiful because it was started with unconditional offerings but as time passes it might be poluted by expectation"